i honestly think the whole “who can you be kin with” debate is ridiculous. first of all, people cannot choose their kintypes at all. by attacking them and forcing them to “stop being kin” with them, they’re not actually stopping, you’re just forcing them into hiding. second of all, if they’re kin by past life it’s just wrong to think that people are the same race and go through the exact same things in life every single life they have. it’s just wrong! why would reincarnation only be within that