So im kin w 3 characters from Undertale and im questioning another?? Honestly ive thought them all out and only one may be a copinglink (i have two that are) i feel horrifically invalid and like an attention whore.

Ouch, that sounds like its very confusing, and I’m sorry that you feel so negatively about your situation. I can’t tell you how ‘valid’ or not you are, but feelings are always legitimate. A person can lie to other people about their feelings, but internally, whatever they are feeling and experiencing, even if they can’t name it, or even if they put the wrong name to it, their feelings are legitimate.

I can’t tell you if you’re ‘really’have all these kintypes, but something is making you feel like you do, and that makes those feelings and that experience important and legitimate to you.

People who are making things up for selfish reasons don’t stop to question if they’re making things up; your questioning yourself is itself a sign of the legitimacy of your feelings.