old tumblr postsMarch 31, 2016

Do you have any theories on how cameo shifts work for fictionkin? (I think I experience two yesterday and I’m really confused. It’s almost like someone decided to pop in to say hi but I’m a singlet sooo…?)

Honestly, I have very little idea, especially as to where they might fit for spiritual/supernatural kin theory. My best guesses are *some kind of walk-in…

old tumblr postsMarch 31, 2016

So I am soulbound to Latios from Pokemon, and I feel I have been for quite some time. He told me that he’s been around for quite a while but just hasn’t been vocal until recently, finally talking whenever I needed his company? Since then he has been a lot more active and made himself known to some of my friends through Skype chat. I was curious if you knew some ways to connect with him better? and what would be some good ways to spend time with him, or just with a soulbond in general? thanks <3

soulbonder: Some great ways to interact and spend time with your bond: Talk about your day, or whatever you’re doing with your bond. This works…

old tumblr postsMarch 31, 2016

So I am soulbound to Latios from Pokemon, and I feel I have been for quite some time. He told me that he’s been around for quite a while but just hasn’t been vocal until recently, finally talking whenever I needed his company? Since then he has been a lot more active and made himself known to some of my friends through Skype chat. I was curious if you knew some ways to connect with him better? and what would be some good ways to spend time with him, or just with a soulbond in general? thanks

soulbonder: Some great ways to interact and spend time with your bond: Talk about your day, or whatever you’re doing with your bond. This works…

old tumblr postsMarch 31, 2016

Hello. I just want to say that, as someone who is a DID sufferer and studying psychology currently in university, alters actually can and often do continue to be formed beyond childhood if the trauma was never dealt with and/or if the emotional instability from the event/events never faded, along with other reasons. However, in order to be diagnosed DID, your first alter at least did have to form during childhood. I cannot speak for OSDD-1/DDNOS, as I haven’t researched those as deeply, but.

Interesting. My information on alters having to be formed from childhood comes from @this-is-not-dissociative and other such blogs. I am unable to retrieve the exact…

old tumblr postsMarch 31, 2016

Is it possible to loose the feeling of being fictionkin for a bit? For about four months straight I felt a kintype so strongly that I couldn’t ignore it and then it suddenly vanished. I thought it was a long cameo shift but now it’s comming back.

Kin feelings can come and go. Sometimes our kintype is the most important thing on our minds, but sometimes it is overshadowed by thoughts and…

old tumblr postsMarch 31, 2016

Is it weird that I knew I was hollowgastkin when I was Jacob even though I didn’t know about kin and only had memories from one kintype even though Jacob was like my eighth? I wonder if it’s normal for polykin to know kintypes in a kin life? Thanks.

I don’t know enough about these specific kintypes to make a judgement about whether there is something especially strange about the relationship between them. However,…

old tumblr postsMarch 31, 2016

What do you think of gatekeeping in the kin community?

It depends on what you mean by ‘gatekeeping’. I am strongly in favor of maintaining a somewhat ‘strong’ definition of what being kin means, and not…

old tumblr postsMarch 31, 2016

Why have people started saying “I’m kin to x” “I kin with x” and the like? Are those correct and I just missed a memo? Because it’s bothering the hell out of me every time i see it

It bothers the hell out of me too anon. Proper form is X is my kintype of just ‘I’m X’. However, it seems to be accepted…