Hello, recently I’ve reached out to some people who are also kin and they rejected me for having more than three kintypes and for questioning some of my own. I want to find accepting people in the community, but I’m not sure how. I’ve also been thinking of making a group, but I’m not sure how many people use the programs I want to use.

Any kin who won’t accept you for having three kintypes (that you’ve put thought into and can justify) are probably elitist snobs and you should…

I used to think I was possibly fictionkin from a certain universe because I had memories, but I couldn’t figure out which character. Now the memories are becoming more clear, and I realized what I remember is WATCHING that TV series in my past life. I remember sitting very close to the old CRT tv in a teeny apartment to see my show better. Have you heard of something like that happening? Is it weird that my only memory is watching TV of all things?

Yeah, I actually have really strong memories of watching the original run of Pokemon while in the Digimon universe. Strange, huh?

Can trauma carry over into this life? For example, in my canon I was a soldier in WWII, and all of this life, long before I knew I was kin, I’ve always felt really nervous and shaky around stuff to do with that era, like if I saw stuff about it at museums something. I have PTSD in this life so I know what being triggered is like, and it honestly feels like that?? But I wasn’t sure if this was possible.

Trauma can definitely carry over between lives. Its one of the major flags of being kin. Just make sure you don’t talk over survivors from…

I deeply wish I could find an otherkin/fictionkin forum or chat or something that was a little more… I dunno, serious? More interested in the theoretical or philosophical aspects of being kin? I’ve been visiting a kin chat recently and it’s just so completely braindead that I don’t think I’m going to stay. The overall quality of every kin community I find is so -low- that I’m beginning to get discouraged.

I know the feeling, anon. I would love to find that space, too. I feel like a lot of kin spaces start out like that…