old tumblr postsMarch 29, 2016

Someone I know has been very traumatized by their close friend in another system because he committed suicide. Is there any way to somehow summon him into my headspace to become a system member, perhaps (via reincarnation)? It’s kind of a desperate situation :/

bitcheshavebirthdays: fromfiction: Ehhhh…. I’m possibly going to get in ‘trouble’ for answering this, anon, but I’m going to go ahead and do it because I have…

old tumblr postsMarch 28, 2016

i have one character that sort of seems like that middle ground between kin and soulbonding. just realized not too long ago. i do have kins, and soulbonds, but i have that one that seems to be in between

@autisticpeko

old tumblr postsMarch 28, 2016

autisticpeko: so i’m looking into more terms for connections w fictional characters and i’m wondering if anyone’s had a similar experience? it kind of seems…

old tumblr postsMarch 28, 2016

What’s your opinion on forging a soulbond with your significant other from a past life? Also what are the logistics of this where timelines are concerned, considering the soulbonder has probably lived other lives since then? You would think the person in question wouldn’t be around to create a soulbond with anymore. I know it’s possible, I’ve seen other people with soulbonds to people who died not long after them or even before them in canon and I just don’t… get it? How does this work?

I’ve never gone out of my way to make a soulbond with my former significant others, because the idea makes me personally feel ‘weird’. However, I…

old tumblr postsMarch 28, 2016

I feel like I literally ‘am’ Sariel from Touhou sometimes. I’ve always felt a strong, unexplained connection to them ever since I first discovered them, and a lot of times I feel like I have ‘phantom wings’ for lack of a better term, flexing my shoulders as if moving my wings. I do use my identity as a coping mechanism, but I don’t think it was the sole reason it was created since my home situation started getting worse after Sariel started to grow in me. Not sure what to call myself?

You sound like fictionkin to me, if you believe that you ‘are’ Sariel in any way. Its totally okay and normal to use your identity to…

old tumblr postsMarch 28, 2016

I hate to spread the bad publicity but my grief at being out of my world is making me into a mild alcoholic. I know I’m betraying the ones I love but it’s so hard. Any coping advice?

You don’t need to worry about bad publicity, right now, anon. You need to worry about getting well. Alcoholism can be very serious, and your…

old tumblr postsMarch 28, 2016

do you know of any way to make one’s headspace visual?

The only way I know is to deliberately visualize it until it becomes reflexive/internalized. Do visualization exercises /guided meditation /memory palace work. You can lay…

old tumblr postsMarch 28, 2016

Hi! I’ve just got a quick question.. I kinda want to talk to my therapist about how I’m fictionkin/a therian but I don’t know how I should go about doing that.. I have (diagnosed) anxiety so it’s kinda hard for me.. Do you have any advice?

My biggest advice is just to be open and honest with your therapist. Don’t try to sugar coat it, or feed it to them in…

old tumblr postsMarch 28, 2016

Saying “you can’t be kin outside of your race” is actually stupidly racist. What about people of races that have no, or very little, fictional representation? They’re not allowed to be kin, or what? Only white/black/Asian people are permitted to be a part of the community, I guess. Everybody who isn’t white/Asian is forced to identify with a narrow scope of characters that are often one-note or badly written because racism fucking exists in the media. Yeah, that’s not marginalizing.

Totally agree with you, anon.