old tumblr postsFebruary 7, 2016

When forming a soul bond, do you think it would be a good idea to “ask” the yet-unformed bond questions and make up an answer that they might reply with until they actually come along? Sorry if that was a little hard to understand.

I definitely think its a good idea to to that! In fact its part of my guide on soulbonding. http://fictionkin.net/soulbonding/soulbonding-for-beginners/

old tumblr postsJanuary 25, 2016

Your post on the fictionkin fictive difference made me wonder – what about fictives who are also fictionkin? As in, they remember past lives in the same way any fictionkin does, even though they have a main/current form similar to a fictionkin’s current life. But maybe that’s a soulbond thing? Since I always heard that fictives were specifically related to alters who are fictional, and soulbonds can come and go as they wish and aren’t necessarily a part of the host.

I won’t take a stance on whether alters can be fictionkin, as alters are specifically DID related and not something I am qualified to discuss.…

old tumblr postsJanuary 19, 2016

Hi, I just wanted to say thank you. I happened across your description of soulbonding and it helped me realize that I (probably on accident) bonded with an original novel character of mine–the points you gave matched up exactly with what happened when he revealed himself. I feel a lot more at ease knowing there’s a word for why he’s there. Thank you so much. <3

I’m so glad that my posts could help! Good luck to you and your bond ^^

old tumblr postsJanuary 19, 2016

Hi, I just wanted to say thank you. I happened across your description of soulbonding and it helped me realize that I (probably on accident) bonded with an original novel character of mine–the points you gave matched up exactly with what happened when he revealed himself. I feel a lot more at ease knowing there’s a word for why he’s there. Thank you so much.

I’m so glad that my posts could help! Good luck to you and your bond ^^

old tumblr postsJanuary 13, 2016

What is the difference between fictive and “id”? Is there even one?

Good question! To start with, a fictive is specifically a headmate or alter. They are a member of a multiple collective or system. As for…

old tumblr postsJanuary 12, 2016

so uh, currently im the host to 3 different characters, but uh, whenever someone else fronts, the rest also knows whats going on? like, say, sans fronts, the rest will also know whats happening to him, we pretty openly talk to each other in our headspace. but i dont know, does that seem weird? the whole everyone knows what everyones doing?

This is totally normal for a lot of multiples, especially natural multiples who aren’t cause by trauma and may not experience dissociation. My headmates and…

old tumblr postsJanuary 12, 2016

Im p sure ive soulbonded w someone, and later on came across tulpa stuff. Im rlly embarrassed to say soulbond around other ppl tho, would it be ok to call a bond an “accedental tulpa”? Or something else maybe? Srry if this sounds dumb.

Most tulpamancers Ive known are cool with the term soulbond. However, if you feel self conscious, you can use whatever term you like!

old tumblr postsJanuary 12, 2016

I’m wondering about figuring out the most appropriate term for myself, as I am a median with bonds. Any ideas?

If everyone in your headspace is a soulbond, maybe median soulbonder is the right term for you? Or median collective. Mental spectrum?

old tumblr postsJanuary 11, 2016

natural multiplicity terms

Lately several DID sufferers have expressed the view that natural multiples using the term ’system’ to describe themselves is in some way appropriative or dismissive…

old tumblr postsJanuary 9, 2016

Fictionkin and Fictives, the difference

Fictives are walk-ins. Fictives appear in an already living body in this world fully aware and conscious of their identity as a certain character. There…