old tumblr postsOctober 26, 2015

Fictives literally are a character. They have no identity outside of themselves in fiction. They were not born in a human body on earth, but…

old tumblr postsOctober 13, 2015

hi um. im having a hard time trying to understand what a system is, and i hear a lot about them, but no one really explains it. so um. would you mind explaining it please? (sorry if you already have. i couldnt find it in your faq…)

A system is a collection of people who exist in the same body at the same time. The people in a system are often referred…

old tumblr postsOctober 13, 2015

Is it possible to have a soulbond that functions as a tulpa-like being? Usually I hear about soulbonds existing only as headmates, but I interact with mine in the same way that people interact with thoughtforms and tulpas; they’re external (entirely outside of my mind), they cannot ‘front’ or take over for me, and I can feel their presence as a semi-physical sensation.

While most of the soulbonders I’ve known have experienced their bonds functionally as headmates, I have also read posts of some people experiencing them as…

old tumblr postsOctober 13, 2015

My host has been reading up on soulbonds and fictives quite a bit lately to try to figure out just what each one of us is. I decided to have a look myself and i really do have to wonder….what is a soulbond? My host says we dont fall into that sort of thing but ive seen quite a few things that always contradict other articles and such.

The shortest definition I can come up with is this: A soulbond is an externally originating headmate with a fictional origin that has an emotional…

old tumblr postsOctober 10, 2015

Is it possible to have a soulbond with a character that you have really cared about since childhood, but not know it? Lately i’ve been having thoughts and feelings that I dont feel like are mine and what I would relate to this character.

Absolutely! Soulbonds are not always loud or obvious, and sometimes they can sort of ‘lurk’ around for a long time before you actually know they’re there.…

old tumblr postsOctober 10, 2015

Hi there. So, you’re sort of the closest thing to an authority on soulbonding that I know of, and I have a question. Is it possible for someone to “accidentally” become a soulbonder? As in they didn’t actively seek anyone out, the connection just sort of randomly happened on its own? Because a lot about it seems like the best term for my situation, but I see a lot about actively creating the bonds, and I worry that that’s a sign that this is really something else?

Hello! I’d like to assure you that its absolutely possible, and in some ways ‘normal’ for soulbonds to just happen. A lot (possibly most) soulbonders don’t…

old tumblr postsSeptember 14, 2015

Can headmates come and go? I feel like I might’ve had one or two other headmates than i do now when I was younger but I’m pretty sure they’re gone now.

Headmates absolutely can come and go. They can be there, or gone for days, weeks, months, or years. I have had headmates who only appeared…

old tumblr postsSeptember 10, 2015

As a follow up, the term ‘fictive’ originated in the multiple community and is short for ‘fictive headmate’.

old tumblr postsSeptember 10, 2015

Fictionkin vs Fictives

Fictives are walk-ins. Fictives appear in an already living body in this world fully aware and conscious of their identity as a certain character. There…

old tumblr postsSeptember 10, 2015

Just a little bit of a correction, tulpas only sometimes fall into the category of headmates. It really depends on the tulpa. A lot of tulpamancers project their tulpas into imaginary friend like things that they can visualize following them and such. Also, quite a lot of tulpas are unable to actually switch (switch places with the host). Some can do what is called possession which is sort of an in between where the tulpa moves one part of the body such as the hands. (1/2)

But for the most part, from my own experiences along with what I have gathered from others, the majority of tulpas seem to exist in…