old tumblr postsMay 16, 2016

Hey, I was wondering if you might be able to help me out with something. I know you specialize on fictionkin but… recently a person told me that they are factkin with me. Not as a joke like some people’s “I’m factkin with this” sort of thing but actually legit factkin with me. And it really has me freaking out a bit and scared because I have a very unstable sense of identity so it really ran me through a loop. How can I cope with this? What should I do? Any advice appreciated!

Hi there, anon. I’m sorry that it took me 40 minutes to answer this ask, since I was on lunch as normally this is the…

old tumblr postsMay 16, 2016

i know its really specific, but would a 17+ tag be useful? I know a lot of people who are 16 and extremely toxic to 17 year olds who are turning 18 because theyre “turning into a yucky adult”

what we really need is #notshittyimmaturetoxickin tag but I feel like that’s asking a lot.

old tumblr postsMay 16, 2016

I was actually considering making a 16+ only kin network, since just about everyone younger than that on this site is toxic as fuck (in my unfortunate experience)

I’m sorry that you had this experience, and that its not unusual either.

old tumblr postsMay 16, 2016

um, why not just 18+ fictionkin? 18 year olds and up are still adults :/

an 18 year old+ tag would be great too! But wouldn’t necessarily serve the same purpose as a 25+ tag the OP is asking for. …

old tumblr postsMay 16, 2016

is it unusual to actively not want to meet anyone from your canon, but to want to meet people from other canons? I rather badly hurt the main characters in my canon and I’m sure they wouldn’t want anything to do with me (and I’d have nothing to say to them anyways), but I think I could be good friends with certain people from other canons.

This doesn’t sound too unusual to me, anon. I generally enjoy meeting people from other canons/sources than my own too.

old tumblr postsMay 16, 2016

The Persona 5 game just got a release date, and with the new trailer I feel a little too much like they just put me in it with one of the characters revealed. I went through this with P4 and found out I soulbonded one of the characters and wasn’t actually kin (I was like super panicked about it for a while). Now I’m just like, ho-hum please don’t do this. Idk. Just wanted to share I guess, bc I don’t ever talk kin or soulbonds on tumblr. It’s just frustraing at this point. You ever deal w this?

Oh yeah, anon. I hear you. Sometimes I see a glimpse of something, in a trailer, or a list on youtube or something and I;m…

old tumblr postsMay 14, 2016

What is your opinion on starseeds?

Haven’t heard about them in ages. As far as I’m concerned they fit in the general otherkin/alterhuman umbrella. If I remember correctly depending on how…

old tumblr postsMay 13, 2016

Showerthought

Wouldn’t it be nice if we could have a network where people with synpaths/fictionheart types could meet and become friends with people with kintypes/fictives of…

old tumblr postsMay 13, 2016

Is it normal/common to be shifted nearly every day? I had a short mental shift yesterday and a longer phantom shift today into my fictotype, and most days I feel phantom body parts (but usually it’s cat-like ears or bird-like wings (but not both) that I feel, which are not a part of any kintype I know of, I only know of one so far). I’m not sure if this is the best place to ask, so sorry if it isn’t. Thanks in advance ~N.

Asking whats normal or not in the alterhuman community is a mixed bag. In my *personal* experience, I tend to shift a lot, and more…

old tumblr postsMay 13, 2016

This might be beyond your ability to answer, but do you have any advice for ‘kin who suffer with delusions? I don’t feel my kinness is inherently a delusion, but I do feel at times my experiences with it contribute to an inability to differentiate between fiction/reality. My grasp on reality can be fragile when I get into bad states, and I’m not sure how to keep infalsifiable memories and emotions from triggering a reality break.

I’m really sorry anon, I’m really ill equipped to give you advice about delusions and separating them from non-delusional internal experiences. Speaking from personal experience…