old tumblr postsJanuary 26, 2016

help me cope with mental illness by giving me more of a sense of self and something to relate to, even if i didn’t choose them. do you think that’s possible?

Many, many reincarnated/spiritual kin rely on aspects of their kinself for comfort and strength. Drawing on your identity as kin to help you cope with…

old tumblr postsJanuary 26, 2016

two of my mutuals that i considered friends are against white people IDing outside their race (one being a poc that regularly asks others to suggest them new kintypes and the other being a white person) and it makes me excruciatingly paranoid and afraid to the point i made a separate fickin blog to talk about my kins, but i really want to figure out a way to either dissuade them from the racism notion or at least ease my anxiety, do you have any suggestions?

You could tell them that its almost certain that the concept of ‘not IDing outside your race’ was thought up by someone white pretending to be…

old tumblr postsJanuary 25, 2016

Hey, just popping in to comment on your ask about kin shifts. The term actually isn’t new at all. It’s been a therian term almost since the therian community began. It’s been adopted by other communities since there are similar experiences and a lack of terminology for them.

You’re very right. The term is only new as applied to fictionkin specifically.

old tumblr postsJanuary 25, 2016

When you are fictionkin you literally think you are that person correct? So what happens when two people meet and are the same fictionkin?

The two of you both spontaneously explode as the time-space continuum attempts to correct itself. Just kidding! Nothing happens, because there are doubles of everyone…

old tumblr postsJanuary 25, 2016

Hey, just curious. Have you ever shifted as your kinselves (Phantom/Mental, etc), and if so, what did it feel like?

I do occasionally experience kin shifts, although until recently, I wasn’t exactly aware that that was what I was experiencing. The term is fairly new,…

old tumblr postsJanuary 25, 2016

what’s your opinion on the otherkin on reddit? I personally haven’t interacted with otherkin there and am curious if theyre better than tumblr.

I’m a redditor, but I don’t generally interact with the kin community there. From what I’ve seen, it is small, traditional, slow moving, and mostly…

old tumblr postsJanuary 25, 2016

there are certain characters and things i feel really strongly about and associate myself with, but i dont feel like these things are directly “me” or that they’re apart of me or are me etc, is there a word for this? would that just be stuff i really like? i feel kind of weird about saying its just stuff i like a lot, its more then that i think.

The word you’re looking for might be synpath.

old tumblr postsJanuary 25, 2016

Your post on the fictionkin fictive difference made me wonder – what about fictives who are also fictionkin? As in, they remember past lives in the same way any fictionkin does, even though they have a main/current form similar to a fictionkin’s current life. But maybe that’s a soulbond thing? Since I always heard that fictives were specifically related to alters who are fictional, and soulbonds can come and go as they wish and aren’t necessarily a part of the host.

I won’t take a stance on whether alters can be fictionkin, as alters are specifically DID related and not something I am qualified to discuss.…

old tumblr postsJanuary 25, 2016

in your about it says that your kin origin is kin through reincarnation, but i was wondering if there was any other way to be kin?

People debate the ‘right’ way to be kin, and if there is such a thing. I don’t know the answer to that any more than anyone…

old tumblr postsJanuary 25, 2016

Last words on recent BS

I am frustrated that people forget to take into account the fact that I am diagnosed bi-polar, and a survivor of serious child abuse and…