I would just like to remind the people following me that you can, in fact, be kin with someone (or something) outside of your current race and/or physical and mental state.
This includes fictionkin. For example, I’m currently questioning whether or not I had a past life as a man who got his hand cut off. As of my life now, I am not physically disabled. That does not stop the memories, or the phantom sensations I get, or any of the signs screaming at me to consider him as a potential past life.
With the above logic, you cannot identify as someone (or something) that is a different gender than the one you currently identify as. That sounds completely ridiculous.
