so uh, currently im the host to 3 different characters, but uh, whenever someone else fronts, the rest also knows whats going on? like, say, sans fronts, the rest will also know whats happening to him, we pretty openly talk to each other in our headspace. but i dont know, does that seem weird? the whole everyone knows what everyones doing?

This is totally normal for a lot of multiples, especially natural multiples who aren’t cause by trauma and may not experience dissociation. My headmates and…

is it weird to keep my kins a “private” thing? like my friends who are kin tell everyone and talk abt it openly and idk i don’t want to tell anyone?? i want to keep it to myself becuase it’s a private thing for me and idk it just makes me feel weird to tell people and i feel almost invalidated because of that bc everyone else so open abt it and im just :/

I don’t think its weird at all. In my personal opinion, being kin IS a private thing. Its not something I need to share with…