how do i take care of littles in my system? i already cant take care of myself and i dont want them to feel bad at all!!
This isn’t really a question I can answer. Its not a kin question, and even as a soulbonder, I don’t have anyone in my headspace who counts as a ‘little’, so I can’t share any personal experience with you.
Maybe @realmultipleadvice has a better perspective for you, or some of my readers could answer your question. Feel free to chime in if anyone has advice for Anon!
@didlittleparadise is a good blog for littles if you’re looking for one.
Aside from that, it really depends on the littles, how old they are, and how your system works. Mostly we just try to keep stuff for ours to do around, like kid-friendly sites/media, art stuff (doesn’t have to be expensive, you can get a 64-count box of crayons for like $8), and toys/plushies. Again though this will depend on how old they are and what they like.
If you have other system members who are protectors/caretakers you can also kind of “assign” them to a little, or if you have outside friends who you can trust/know that you are multiple you could ask them to help (we have a few friends who will hang out with our littles online, just as a way to keep them company).
Hope that helps a little (heh). Littles really aren’t that difficult once you work out a system for them.
