Most people I know who use nounself pronouns provide an auxiliary set for people who don’t know how to use them

I like it when people do that, and as I’ve said I’m happy to use he/she/they/xe for anybody.

I have seen a lot of pushy/angry nounself pronoun users, but that’s true for ANY group of people, and I try to remember that a group isn’t made up  just of its loudest/angriest members. (which I wish people would remember about kin)