Is it possible to “steal” someone’s soulbonds, or to interact with them against the soulbonder’s will or without their knowledge? If someone I don’t know or don’t like tells me that they’ve been talking to my soulbonds, should I believe them?
If someone I don’t know or don’t like tells me that they’ve been talking to my soulbonds, should I believe them?
If someone you don’t know or don’t like tells you they’ve been interacting with your soulbonds this is a HUGE RED FLAG, anon. This is the biggest indicator that manipulative, abusive behavior is on the horizon, and indeed, has already started.
Do NOT maintain contact with anyone who claims to be interacting with YOUR soulbonds against your will or without your knowledge.
My advice, from personal experience, and from cases where this happened to other bonders is that you cut contact with this person immediately, and warn anyone else you believe may be in danger from them.
Note for kin: the same thing goes if someone claims to know more about your personal kintypes and kin experience than you do.
*SMASHES REBLOG BUTTON* ANON PLZ CONTACT ME. This happened to me twice and this shit is NOT OKAY AT ALL. OKAY. DO NOT BELIEVE THEM. That shit isn’t justified it isn’t real they’re lying and fuck. I have had gone through this hell when I was 16-18. And then later on in life people telling me that Aubrey was doing shit he clearly wasn’t doing At. All. Please please begging you anon to contact me. My skype is bottomfeedertalathia. I wanna help you plz plz plz PLZ.
Its ritual abuse some of my PTSD stems from this shit, please be safe anon.
Seconding, this kind of thing is manipulative and incredibly fucked up.
Don’t ever believe someone who claims to have contact with your soulbonds behind your back or without your knowledge, no matter what excuses or reasons they give for how it’s “totally plausible”. Unless you trust them and have a current, active agreement on sharing soulbonds with them, there is no reason for this kind of behavior to ever be accepted.
It’s a manipulation tactic, or it’s a power fantasy. It’s not legitimate at all.
^ that too. And even then if you have given disclosure and it seems messes up and or dramatic or painful or they gaslight. Cut them out. This is a abuse tactic and a control tactic it’s abusive and toxic and very dangerous. Anon if you’re alone if you feel like you don’t have any friends besides this person please feel free to reach out to myself or anyone else in this thread.
