old tumblr postsJuly 4, 2016

genoscissors: I can’t believe I saw a post trying to argue against this but: IF YOU ARE KIN YOU ARE THE SAME BEING AS WHATEVER…

old tumblr postsJuly 4, 2016

I’m sorry, I know this is in your faq but I still don’t understand it. What exactly is being kin? Is it thinking you’re related to a character? I thought otherkin for example is literally thinking you are that kind of animal, so I thought being kin with a character meant literally thinking you are that character? And what is the difference to “id” and “double” and that kind of stuff? This is so confusing

byfcringe: Kin means you HEAVILY connect to that character almost like you ARE the character or are related to the character. ID means you just…

old tumblr postsJuly 4, 2016

We’re 32 and much as I’d love to canon call, I know they’re all way younger and it’d be weird. So we are alone forever I guess…>.>

old tumblr postsJuly 4, 2016

To the older anon. We know how you feel. Our form is 26 as well. We feel the pain. We still put canon calls out there though.

old tumblr postsJuly 4, 2016

hi! Factkin anon mentioned a mirror system and I am having difficulty finding a definition of what a mirror system is?

A mirror system is when one person with headmates knows another person whose headmates that reflect or interact with the other person’s in some way.…

old tumblr postsJuly 4, 2016

this isnt specific to anyone but i feel like someone could hear this. to those who are questioning a kintype take your time learning to understand and figure yourself out!! months ago i would feel this attached weight on my shoulders, and i assumed it would be wings, vague phantom feeling emerging of wings. but a few months later i realized what it was! the weight of charging cables that plugged into my back. i was an android. take your time figuring stuff out. try not to assume!

Thanks for sharing, anon! Great advice.

old tumblr postsJuly 4, 2016

Factkin anon again, thank you for your help! My fiance is my mirror system, but I haven’t told them that I’m factkin, as I’m pretty ashamed of it. My biggest issue with soulbonding with the person I miss is that I couldn’t bear to keep him a secret from my fiance. They wouldn’t judge me, and in fact know I’m factkin but not with who, but I’m so uncomfortable with myself that I believe my partner wouldn’t accept it either.

Hey anon. I understand how self conscious you are about this whole thing. Its a shitty situation to be in. I think what you need…

old tumblr postsJuly 4, 2016

@ the anon worried about being too old, I’m 21 and I’m not stopping AFAIK lol. Also there’s a canon call blog for people over 18, though I can’t remember the name for it rn

thanks anon!

old tumblr postsJuly 4, 2016

Hey uh, this is the factkin anon. I usually handle missing someone by bringing them here as a soulbond, as I also have fictotypes. But uh… I’m in my factotype shift and I wouldn’t be at all comfortable having the person I miss in my system. But I miss him so bad it physically hurts, and I don’t know what to do about it. Inducing other shifts is difficult for me and I don’t trust my system members not to blab about why I’m upset if I have one front. They’re good people, I’m just a bit paranoid.

That sounds like a really complicated situation, anon. I’m not sure what advice to give you here. Missing people is really, really hard. But its…

old tumblr postsJuly 4, 2016

Do you think there’s anything problematic about being ‘facthearted’, aka fictionhearted with an actual person? Like, I don’t feel that I’m currently/ever was him, but he does seem like an ideal version of me, like who I’d be if I had total freedom of expression, you know? Or maybe there’s a different term for that which I’m not aware of?

I don’t know if there’s a specific word for it (facthearted seems fine?), but honestly there is nothing wrong with seeing a celebrity and feeling…