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Dear Concern Trolls

Harassing and mocking people, especially children under the age of 17, is always super douchey. Yes, even if you think they’re acting stupid. Yes, even…

old tumblr postsJanuary 12, 2016

Is being attracted to your own kintypes normal? Like. ..I’d fuck p much all my kintypes but that makes me feel as if maybe I’m not actually kin of them?

I may be the wrong person to ask, anon. I’m super vain, and would 10/10 def take to bed all of my kintypes and my…

old tumblr postsJanuary 12, 2016

Is it alright for me to be kin with multiple characters from the same series, but different canons?

I don’t see why it wouldn’t be. You may need to describe it more fully for me to understand.

old tumblr postsJanuary 12, 2016

Hello there! There’s something that’s been bugging me lately on the topic of fictionkin: why are there so many for mainstream/popular series, such as UnderTale, meanwhile smaller series have basically no ‘kin (I hope this makes sense! Thank you for your time!)

The truth is most people who are fictionkin will never know that they are fictionkin. You can have kin memories, experience shifts, have flashbacks, and…

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do i have to be mentally ill to be fictionkin ? i was abused and iam kin w/a character to cope. is that okay ?

You do not need to be mentally ill to be fictionkin. While there are many fictionkin who are mentally ill or autistic, most are neurotypical/allistic.…

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so uh, currently im the host to 3 different characters, but uh, whenever someone else fronts, the rest also knows whats going on? like, say, sans fronts, the rest will also know whats happening to him, we pretty openly talk to each other in our headspace. but i dont know, does that seem weird? the whole everyone knows what everyones doing?

This is totally normal for a lot of multiples, especially natural multiples who aren’t cause by trauma and may not experience dissociation. My headmates and…

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is it weird to keep my kins a “private” thing? like my friends who are kin tell everyone and talk abt it openly and idk i don’t want to tell anyone?? i want to keep it to myself becuase it’s a private thing for me and idk it just makes me feel weird to tell people and i feel almost invalidated because of that bc everyone else so open abt it and im just :/

I don’t think its weird at all. In my personal opinion, being kin IS a private thing. Its not something I need to share with…

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What do you think of people policing kintypes? Like the whole fictionkin thing with “don’t be kin with them if you aren’t their race thing.” In my experience, some people say “just don’t put it out there” and “repress it.”

My thoughts on kin policing: http://fromfiction.tumblr.com/post/132771466702/race-repost

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Im p sure ive soulbonded w someone, and later on came across tulpa stuff. Im rlly embarrassed to say soulbond around other ppl tho, would it be ok to call a bond an “accedental tulpa”? Or something else maybe? Srry if this sounds dumb.

Most tulpamancers Ive known are cool with the term soulbond. However, if you feel self conscious, you can use whatever term you like!

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I’m wondering about figuring out the most appropriate term for myself, as I am a median with bonds. Any ideas?

If everyone in your headspace is a soulbond, maybe median soulbonder is the right term for you? Or median collective. Mental spectrum?