How ’bout that rude anon come off anon and attack our community publicly? How ’bout they defend their point instead of hide behind the safety of anonymity? I mean, going around putting mean asks in someone’s box, but not owning up to it? That’s just cowardly. Hey, @ rudeanon, you know who this person is, but they don’t know you. What makes you think anyone is going to believe what you have to say when you don’t even put a face/icon/image to it?

do you have any advice for confirming kintypes? there are two or three characters i get fairly strong kinfeels from, and i’m pretty sure i’m only one of them, since they’re a group of friends, but i don’t know which one. i have trouble being sure of these things without memories. thank you!! have a lovely day/night!!

kins-ly: Well you could try tarot (I know lots of people use those for confirming kintypes). But the best advice I can give you is…

Fiction kin is extremely unhealthy, not to mention disrespectful. When a person takes time and effort to bring life to a character, one whom may or may not have deep, personal ties to the creator, it’s extremely rude to take all that hard work and say “I AM THIS CHARACTER! I HAVE THEIR MEMORIES!” When no, you are not their character, you never will be. Also, what does “my canon” mean? CANON = what happens in the official publication. Not whatever the fuck happens in your crazy fucking head.

Fiction kin is extremely unhealthy,  Uh, source? [Citation Needed]. Are you a doctor? Have you discovered the link between being kin and cancer? not to…

I think I may be only fictionkin, but up until a little while ago I thought I was a therian as well. My best friend is a theriomythic, and also fictionkin, and I don’t know how to explain I think I’m not a therian anymore? I’m afraid he’ll think I’m mucking him around and not taking enough time to think about these things (when, in reality, I do, because this was my worst fear). How do I tell him?

If your friend is seriously therian, then he should applaud you for having the introspection and self-understanding necessary to know when you were wrong about…

Can I call myself otherkin without meditating? I know people always suggest that, but what are some other ways of introspection? Personally, I find it extremely difficult to meditate because my mind is always on and thinking, and trying to meditate and slowly push all the feelings out of my mind is very stressful for me.

You absolutely can call yourself otherkin without meditation. Meditation is just a tool that helps some people focus and understand their feelings and identities better.…