old tumblr postsJune 5, 2016

is it normal to have kinfeels that you dont notice over the months/years, yet suddenly when seeing the actual source material it hits so hard that you end up extremely freaked out and depressed over what happened and you cant stop crying and getting so painfully emotional over sudden flashbacks of memories, knowing that what youve felt all along finally has meaning, and having this all happen within 48 hours? can i still say im them?

I can’t tell you whether you’re kin or not, but what you describe is pretty much what happened to my fiancee when she first saw…

old tumblr postsJune 5, 2016

How many hearttypes can you have? I understand there may be more than kintypes, but is there a way to figure out strong hearttypes? Would organised hearttypes (primary, secondary) be quite logical in this way?

I don’t think there’s any upper limit on hearttypes? and organizing hearttypes might be logical!

old tumblr postsJune 5, 2016

tbh i cant tell if im fictionkin or copinglink. i dont get memories or homesickness but i get really strong emotions n stuff. but after reading about fictionkin (i knew what otherkin was so i tried seeing if there was a “fictional character eqivilant”) i thought “wow thats way more involved than i am” in that i dont really get memories and i dont really think it’s spiritual. n with all the c’link stuff going around i was like “i guess that makes sense” but i started evaluating it and well (1/2)

(2/2) well i’m starting to think that maybe i was fictionkin all along anyway, and i’m just dwelling too much on things. im not good…

old tumblr postsJune 5, 2016

I kind of feel like one of the only kin that doesn’t miss my homeworld. My homeworld was shit. This world is, by far, a better place to live, and I’m grateful to be here instead of still there. I do miss the people from my old life, though, and that by far hurts more than anything else.

Sometimes the worlds we came from were crap, anon. I’m sure you’re not the only kin who came from a dystopia or just a nasty…

old tumblr postsJune 5, 2016

if i believe i’m copingkin (but not in the copinglink way, i don’t control this), would it be considered weird if i experienced memories? I consider them memories that my mind falsified, but i’m wondering if thi is normal.

Psychological kin (kin that don’t believe they have a spiritual origin for their kintype) still can experience memories, they just believe that they were created…

old tumblr postsJune 5, 2016

I update as needed- the second a new soulbond arrives or I feel that my ranking needs to change, I change it! I really can’t stand not being up to date and such ^^;;; -Organization anon

I wish I was as organized as you, anon! (sincerely) 🙂

old tumblr postsJune 5, 2016

I only have two kintypes, but I definitely feel much closer to one than the other. They’re both me, but one has a lot more influence over me, my actions, and how I view the world, and I experiance many more shifts with it. Just my 2 cents.

Interesting to hear, anon! I find this kind of thing really fascinating. Personally, between my kintypes, I feel them more or less strongly completely depending…

old tumblr postsJune 5, 2016

For me, i have primary (kintypes i am currently shifting into pretty often), secondary (kintypes i still feel strongly but i’m not experiencing shifts at the moment), and tertiary (kintypes that i still feel but i haven’t had a shift in a while). Then I have synpaths/hearttypes and a questioning list as well. -Organization anon

Very interesting! It makes me wonder how often do you have to update your lists? I’m so lazy I haven’t even updated m soulbond list…

old tumblr postsJune 5, 2016

ah, okay! apologies for my accusations. i guess it is pretty easy to get defensive about this sort of thing.

Apology accepted and nothing to worry about, anon. Tone comes through poorly on the internet, and tumblr in particular is *terrible* about retaining context for…

old tumblr postsJune 5, 2016

i guess the main thing is that it kind of hurts, here i am thinking that i’ve found a really good and informative blog about something that plays a pretty big role in my life, basically giving the vibe that because i have tiers of kintypes, that i’m less valid than those who dont. and man, it is really disappointing

I never said you were less valid. Also, I despise ‘validity’ as a concept. The original question I was asked was ‘ When looking at someone’s…