old tumblr postsJune 29, 2016

Can we just declare “you can’t be kin outside of your race” (and all possible variations of it) trolling and summarily dismiss it as the nonsense it is? I have a hard time anybody seriously believes that anyway. They’re just saying it to stir shit

Agreed, anon. Either that or they’re from outside the community and have no idea what they’re talking about.

old tumblr postsJune 28, 2016

in relation to being told to repress kintypes—I once saw a multiplicity blog tell someone to try and suppress one of their headmates bc they weren’t the same race as the host..which is honestly just terrible advice.

Yeah, that’s fucking *terrible* advice, especially to a multiple. As if they had control over their alters???

old tumblr postsJune 28, 2016

Don’t act like being uncomfortable with fictionkin/otherkin and being uncomfortable with factkin is the same thing, though. Like, let’s not forget that factkin shouldn’t be open about their identity FOR A REASON.

Firstly, please don’t take that tone of expression with me. Secondly, I find it interesting that my message of “lets treat everyone with respect and civility…

old tumblr postsJune 28, 2016

Asking with no disrespect to the fictionkin community: I’m trying to understand how someone can be fictionkin? If the character is literally made up, how can someone have memories from that life if they never existed in the first place?

Thank you for asking so respectfully, its really appreciated. The truth is that everyone who is kin has a slightly different theory for how it…

old tumblr postsJune 28, 2016

I’m feeling very confused about my identity and was wondering if you could help me? I recently realized I could be fictionkin but I kinda fluctuate in and out of it. Sometimes I feel like I am them and other times I’m just myself. Is this normal???

That sounds like it could be a lot of different things, anon. From your description it could be: 1. you’re kin and sometimes its more…

old tumblr postsJune 27, 2016

soulbonder: Hi all. I don’t generally like to drag down this blog with drama or ‘callout’ posts, or really any kind of negativity whatsoever, but several…

old tumblr postsJune 27, 2016

Hey this might sound odd but can you have a soulbond that’s separate from your actual system? I’m a system and I’m trying to gain/pull at a soulbond but I was curious if they become a system member.

I don’t really have a firm answer for you, but I can talk about my personal experience. In my personal experience, I have had headmates…

old tumblr postsJune 27, 2016

On that post about canon calls, I just wanted to add that it can be particularly bad if youre villiankin because you may feel like you owe it to canonmates to do what they want and just take whatever shit they throw your way because you ‘deserve it’.

Very good point, anon.

old tumblr postsJune 27, 2016

Does your website include getting info from outside tumblr? I find your website quite easy to read and organised compared to some.

I like to think it does, anon! And thank you for the compliment! 🙂

old tumblr postsJune 27, 2016

Seeing all these people saying they’re afraid to be factkin makes me want to ask: is it okay to be uncomfortable about them? I wouldn’t go around harassing them, making blatant posts on why they should or shouldn’t exist, and besides being uncomfortable with them, I’m a bit indifferent to the entire thing. Is that okay?

Its okay to be uncomfortable with factkin, as long as you’re not harassing or badmouthing them. Remember too that some people are uncomfortable with fictionkin…