fictionkinJanuary 9, 2018

OC Kin

is it weird to kin your own character, even if they’re from a fictional universe that isn’t your own (like an oc or playable character)?…

old tumblr postsJune 15, 2016

Thank you!! That opened my eyes to a lot of things! He says his friends dislike me because I’ve hardly say with them and gotten to know them but I read in his friends group chat then screenshot ting and making fun of a post I shared on Facebook and he just said “they’re cunts to everyone who isn’t in the group” he just encourages me to sit with them more no matter how uncomfortable I say I am, he says the problem will get worse the more I avoid it. He sits with my friends a lot of the time. Idk

Hey there, anon. Your boyfriend sounds like he’s putting his friends behavior ahead of your comfort, which isn’t cool. If these kids “are cunts to everyone…

old tumblr postsJune 15, 2016

Kind of funny how I get two ‘dating/life advice’ type asks in a row! For future refrence even though its not really the ‘point’ of this blog,…

old tumblr postsJune 15, 2016

How do you tell your girlfriend you think you’re fictionkin if all they’ve done when you’ve mentioned kin things is shun you.

Find a girlfriend who doesn’t abuse you by shutting you down when you talk about your interests. Seriouisly, kin stuff or not, a significant other…

old tumblr postsJune 15, 2016

I’m not usually one to seek to people on the Internet for help but I’m so desperate and I really enjoy following your blog so I thought you might be able to help. I’m in high school and my bf has a different group of friends and I can’t push myself to speak up and talk to them or sit with them half the times story dislike it for me. Another boy in his friend group has a gf whom they all love and I really don’t know how to push myself to make them like me? Please help

Hi there, anon! 🙂 I’m sorry you’ve been having social trouble like this. Highschool is hard, because people are forced to socialize with one another…

old tumblr postsJanuary 19, 2016

(part 1) The otherkin community has interested me for a long time and I admit that in the beginning I did not understand it and had some less than nice thoughts about it simply because of that, but now I’ve read up on it, especially here on your blog, and I have found that I can relate? A lot? This is all very confusing to me, but I think several experiences I haven’t understood earlier might be signs that I’m fictionkin. I have identified with a character for a long time and I thought that

(Part 2) it was only to the level everyone gets, but after reading your posts I’m starting to see that might not be it. I…

old tumblr postsAugust 19, 2015

Its easy for me to forget how young people can be on this site. When I see 14 and 15 year olds around, its a…

old tumblr postsAugust 17, 2015

I want to open up about being fictionkin and make some friends in the community and stuff, but I’m really sensitive about bullying and I’m not sure I could handle being targeted for mockery the way kin are. Any suggestions? :(

Its tough to get into the fictionkin community without a thick skin, because sadly, it does open one up to ridicule a bit. I do…

old tumblr postsAugust 15, 2015

i miss someone from my canon who was extremely extremely close to me and right now id do anything to have him back.. any ideas on how to cope?

Missing people your kinself knew is always difficult. I know that I get sad sometimes, when I think of those people who were close to…

old tumblr postsAugust 14, 2015

im really confused and troubled lately because i think im kin with some characters but im genuinely not sure if my feelings are valid but fictionkin seems to “fit”, if that makes sense?? i feel a lot of kin things except memories. i see those canonical happenings as an outsider and i do not feel like i am present or part of them occurring. at the same time, theres a familiarity and longing that’s present?? im not sure what im feeling. it’s a strong feeling, but im not sure what it IS exactly?

There are two possibilities here. One is that you are kin with someone from that ‘canon’ who was never shown on screen. Basically a ‘background character’ or ‘extra’…