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It feels like there’s a barrier in my mind separating this life from my kin memories. While I remembered a few, it’s so darn hard to reach out to deeper memories. I have found myself feeling bad because i don’t have a lot to hold on to of my old friends, kind of like I’m losing them. Meditation isn’t really helpful either. What should I do?

Depending on what you believe, there may be an *actual* barrier between you and these deeper memories, put there for any number of reasons. Is…

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wrt mistaking soulbonds for kintypes: I mistook a soulbond for a kintype for a solid month before I finally realized what was actually going on. It was especially confusing because I had cameo shifts of them and their memories were bleeding into mine as I awakened. It wasn’t until I read a post about soulbonding that really described my experience that I understood. I’d suggest you keep doing research on anything you think it might be and don’t cross anything off too soon.

Great advice, anon ^^

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So I’m almost certain I’m kin of a certain character from Undertale (not saying who because spoilers). I have shared memories with someone else who was from my timeline as well as astral limbs, but I keep doubting myself because I came to the realization only a few months after I finished the game, and I didn’t meditate or anything like that. Would you say this is still fictionkin, or is it something else?

Sometimes realizations come slowly. And you certainly don’t HAVE to mediate to know you are kin- that’s just something I advise when someone is trying…

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I don’t know if this is the proper blog to ask this, since you have the soulbond blog and this one…I was wondering, do you think its possible for your soulbond to have such an impact on your personality that you mistake it for being kin with it? I feel as though for a while I was a specific character and this one only, but after a while I really got confused and wondered if it was possible that all this time it was actually a soulbonds thoughts making me think that way? What do you think?

do you think its possible for your soulbond to have such an impact on your personality that you mistake it for being kin with it?…

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traumagenic system here: if you have a system, you can use the word system. It doesn’t mtter if you have DID or not. I think a lot of this “debate” stems from DID systems saying that endogenic systems are fake, tbh. While endogenic systems don’t have the same situation as DID systems, they are not fake and they are not appropriating DID just by being and using the word system

Thank you for chiming in. I think you’re absolutely right that the dispute started there. I am saddened that there is such a situation going…

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