Er, hi, i’m the anon with 16 kintypes and I… -sigh- If you don’t mind, can I ask your opinion on something? So about a week ago, I saw an older pale blue car parked under a streetlight in the middle of the night and I felt intense fear, despite being in a car as well, and a couple days after that I suddenly got the extreme urge to look online for leather jackets, and I was extremely distressed that I couldn’t find any that fit me. My partner thinks I might be Ponyboy. I had a shift, but… 16.

Well anon, lets see. Personally, I’m, of the opinion that one ‘shift’ and some weird unexplained feelings don’t make something a kintype. For me to call…

I always thought I was a reincarnation kin but I’m more and more worried it’s just a mental coping thing, which totally invalidates its worth and existence for me, and also because I have a soulbond and if I’m just ‘making it up’, then he isn’t real and none of this matters. I’m so unhappy. Why can’t I just believe? I have the same issues with religion. Logically, it’s all comforting rubbish, isn’t it? It’s just a pretty lie. I can hardly bear that. Why bother with a pointless, empty, dry life?

Anon, we all go through periods of disbelief, and they can be crushing. I know how you feel, because I’ve been in that position before,…