old tumblr postsJanuary 7, 2016

My input as both kin and an artist on the tagging thing: I think its important to say that people can tag things as they want, its a public website, but I also think its important to realize that artists still have every right to be angry (c)

old tumblr postsJanuary 6, 2016

Personally speaking, being kin is an experience in my life that I have to cope with, not something that I use to cope with experiences…

old tumblr postsJanuary 6, 2016

Revised opinion on tagging #kin/#me

Its come to my attention that the reason there’s an outcry against people tagging art as #kin is because they’re not tagging fanart. They’re tagging…

old tumblr postsJanuary 6, 2016

About tagging art as me I don’t understand because I don’t do this as otherkin but because i identify with a character, same as other fandom people tagging as my son, my husband, my child, etc. I thought this was the same as tagging with your love for a character so I’m so confused, I was happy to see that in fandom you can tag your love and fascination for a character or show and I thought tagging me was another way to do this, not a kin thing. I see non kin doing that too with fanart.

Its good to see I’m not the only one with a confused perspective on the phenomenon. Before the outcry, I wouldn’t have known that people…

old tumblr postsJanuary 6, 2016

Can confirm, I am a totally non-trauma based singlet soulbonder so is not necessarily a multiple term. More like a spirit worker/astral worker kind of thing.

old tumblr postsJanuary 6, 2016

Is soulbound term only for multiples? Because I research it all I could find and it helped define my relationships with characters but I’m not multiple as far as I know, I have really strong facets based on trauma and a strong relationship with characters that I even use in my pop culture paganism practices.

No, soulbonders can be singlets too. There are both multiple and singlet ways to interact with soulbonds.

old tumblr postsJanuary 6, 2016

Thank you for your reply, I understand and it’s a good point but I think that while classifications are good to make things clear dividing a small community with close experiences in two against the wishes of some of them is not ideal. I also think the otherkin community wants only people who believe it’s an spiritual thing lately, I mean between coping kin and people who believe being kin is psychological or anything not spiritual there isn’t such a big diference and both tend to be excluded.

I think its important to share space- but I also think its important to have dedicated spaces to both. We have similar experiences, and a…

old tumblr postsJanuary 6, 2016

tbh it’s probably a good idea for natural multiples to call themselves something different? they don’t experience the same things so why use the same terms?

*shrug* I don’t disagree. If the multiplicity community decided to rename itself tomorrow I’d be all for it. Ive already been around for renaming otakukin…

old tumblr postsJanuary 6, 2016

I believe healthy multiplicity is real and your anon is missing the point, psychology is supposed to explain the workings of the mind not own them and only allow for their worldview to exist, so please don’t assume I’m one of those anons, but I think that what people like the anon are doing to you reminds me of what otherkin like you do to other kin, you define who can be part of the community by your views, like being against coping kin, according to my worldview as kin that is possible.

Sorry this took me longer to get to! You have a point! The difference is that I absolutely believe that copingkin exist as a phenomenon…

old tumblr postsJanuary 6, 2016

how on earth is a livejournal supposed to be an official source? you have no evidence to back up your claims. all of the links on the site have been discredited multiple times. people claiming to be multiple without having the additional symptoms of an unintegrated personality clearly have no understanding of what a system is. a system is a medical term for all dissociated parts of a person with DID or OSDD-1.

The point is over here <- and you are all the waaaaay over there —–> In other words, you have missed the point. how on…