old tumblr postsJune 27, 2016

Hey this might sound odd but can you have a soulbond that’s separate from your actual system? I’m a system and I’m trying to gain/pull at a soulbond but I was curious if they become a system member.

I don’t really have a firm answer for you, but I can talk about my personal experience. In my personal experience, I have had headmates…

old tumblr postsJune 10, 2016

heck heck hheck s h i f t i n g nnot fronting ohmgg I almost went and asked if you could link to some of those “voluntary fronting guides” before I caught my shit dyslexic self. Though… if you DO know of guides for voluntary fronting…… or is that something this front stuck anon can only dream about

Sorry anon, maybe a blog more focused on multiplicity can help you?

old tumblr postsApril 18, 2016

how do i take care of littles in my system? i already cant take care of myself and i dont want them to feel bad at all!!

This isn’t really a question I can answer. Its not a kin question, and even as a soulbonder, I don’t have anyone in my headspace…

old tumblr postsApril 14, 2016

Do you think it’s possible for a fictive consciousness in one system to jump to another system? And still have the ability to jump back? I’m a gateway system and I have a friend who is too. We have a few consciousnesses who have the ability to do that, but just between us. I have a consciousness who says he has the ability to go between me and his actor. I believe him, I’m just curious if this has happened with anybody else.

Yes, I believe this. It used to happen with me and my best friend back in the day, though our headspaces are more closed off…

old tumblr postsApril 12, 2016

No, headmate was not created by MPD/DID systems.

lb-lee: I’ve done some cursory digging into the term ‘headmate’ and I find Astraea referencing it in their glossary in 2008, as specifically from soulbonders,…

old tumblr postsApril 11, 2016

if my headmate fronting doesnt cause a change in time perception or change my personality 100% am i still a multiple/median?

That’s not something I can define for you. I suggest @realmultipleadvice

old tumblr postsMarch 31, 2016

you are literally the only person “debating” the term “system”

Judging by the fact that any time I use the term ‘system’ to refer to non-DID multiples, I have DID sufferers jumping down my throat…

old tumblr postsMarch 31, 2016

sorry but do you know anything about fictives in a system? do u know if like one can find out they’re a fictive of a character that hasn’t been around as long in official media as the alter itself has been around in the system-….

I am compelled to point out that ‘system’ is currently a debated term, as to whether or not it is acceptable to use unless you are…

old tumblr postsMarch 30, 2016

i’m so sorry if someone asked this before but what’s the difference between headmates and multiplicity? and is it possible to have fictives as a part of a system?

Oof sorry anon, this question is all kinds of confused. Let me try to detangle things for you. headmate: a person/entity that is sharing a…