how do i take care of littles in my system? i already cant take care of myself and i dont want them to feel bad at all!!

This isn’t really a question I can answer. Its not a kin question, and even as a soulbonder, I don’t have anyone in my headspace who counts as a ‘little’, so I can’t share any personal experience with you.

Maybe @realmultipleadvice has a better perspective for you, or some of my readers could answer your question. Feel free to chime in if anyone has advice for Anon!