old tumblr postsOctober 13, 2015

hi um. im having a hard time trying to understand what a system is, and i hear a lot about them, but no one really explains it. so um. would you mind explaining it please? (sorry if you already have. i couldnt find it in your faq…)

A system is a collection of people who exist in the same body at the same time. The people in a system are often referred…

old tumblr postsOctober 13, 2015

My host has been reading up on soulbonds and fictives quite a bit lately to try to figure out just what each one of us is. I decided to have a look myself and i really do have to wonder….what is a soulbond? My host says we dont fall into that sort of thing but ive seen quite a few things that always contradict other articles and such.

The shortest definition I can come up with is this: A soulbond is an externally originating headmate with a fictional origin that has an emotional…

old tumblr postsSeptember 18, 2015

Hiatus

Hello all. I am sorry to say that I am going to go on hiatus for a little while. Right now I do not know…

old tumblr postsSeptember 14, 2015

Can headmates come and go? I feel like I might’ve had one or two other headmates than i do now when I was younger but I’m pretty sure they’re gone now.

Headmates absolutely can come and go. They can be there, or gone for days, weeks, months, or years. I have had headmates who only appeared…

old tumblr postsSeptember 10, 2015

As a follow up, the term ‘fictive’ originated in the multiple community and is short for ‘fictive headmate’.

old tumblr postsSeptember 10, 2015

Fictionkin vs Fictives

Fictives are walk-ins. Fictives appear in an already living body in this world fully aware and conscious of their identity as a certain character. There…

old tumblr postsSeptember 10, 2015

Just a little bit of a correction, tulpas only sometimes fall into the category of headmates. It really depends on the tulpa. A lot of tulpamancers project their tulpas into imaginary friend like things that they can visualize following them and such. Also, quite a lot of tulpas are unable to actually switch (switch places with the host). Some can do what is called possession which is sort of an in between where the tulpa moves one part of the body such as the hands. (1/2)

But for the most part, from my own experiences along with what I have gathered from others, the majority of tulpas seem to exist in…

old tumblr postsSeptember 9, 2015

hi, i was pointed here when i asked what a soulbond/tulpa are ??

Hi there! Soulbonds and tulpas are two different kinds headmates. Heamates are people who exist in a body/mindspace with other headmates. Generally people who have/are…

old tumblr postsSeptember 6, 2015

Fictives and Headmates

Anyone can have fictives or other headmates; not all those with headmates are disordered. In the last ten years or more there has been a…

old tumblr postsAugust 17, 2015

I feel kinda bad, like I might be using a soulbond. They don’t seem to be active (or I can’t hear them idk) in anything other than when I’m upset, when they come over and cuddle up and tell me they love me. It’s nice, but it feels wrong and I want to be able to talk to them more. On the other hand it feels like they take over my body, at least partially, when I go outside the house, but it doesn’t feel like communicating. How can I reach out and talk and listen better?

First of all, try not to feel bad. ^^ For one thing, communication with bonds isn’t always easy at first. For another thing, soulbonds often…