old tumblr postsJune 29, 2016

I was wondering, are there any blogs that so kin calls that allow psychological kin and copinglinkers, as well? I want to talk to some people who would be okay with me letting my kin out and chatting with them, but since I don’t have exactly the same experience as most kin, even though I fully respect spiritual kin and don’t think they’re invalid, that I’ll be scolded because I’m not spiritual enough, or because I RP my kintype (partly because that’s the only way I can let him out). Any advice?

You’re certainly welcome to share your views and such on this blog, anon. Other than that, I don’t know of any particular blogs. Chime in/reblog…

old tumblr postsJune 29, 2016

Do you believe that a request blog should source every single image they use (not just the art, but the photography as well)?

old tumblr postsJune 29, 2016

Can we just declare “you can’t be kin outside of your race” (and all possible variations of it) trolling and summarily dismiss it as the nonsense it is? I have a hard time anybody seriously believes that anyway. They’re just saying it to stir shit

Agreed, anon. Either that or they’re from outside the community and have no idea what they’re talking about.

old tumblr postsJune 28, 2016

in relation to being told to repress kintypes—I once saw a multiplicity blog tell someone to try and suppress one of their headmates bc they weren’t the same race as the host..which is honestly just terrible advice.

Yeah, that’s fucking *terrible* advice, especially to a multiple. As if they had control over their alters???

old tumblr postsJune 28, 2016

Don’t act like being uncomfortable with fictionkin/otherkin and being uncomfortable with factkin is the same thing, though. Like, let’s not forget that factkin shouldn’t be open about their identity FOR A REASON.

Firstly, please don’t take that tone of expression with me. Secondly, I find it interesting that my message of “lets treat everyone with respect and civility…

old tumblr postsJune 28, 2016

Asking with no disrespect to the fictionkin community: I’m trying to understand how someone can be fictionkin? If the character is literally made up, how can someone have memories from that life if they never existed in the first place?

Thank you for asking so respectfully, its really appreciated. The truth is that everyone who is kin has a slightly different theory for how it…

old tumblr postsJune 28, 2016

I’m feeling very confused about my identity and was wondering if you could help me? I recently realized I could be fictionkin but I kinda fluctuate in and out of it. Sometimes I feel like I am them and other times I’m just myself. Is this normal???

That sounds like it could be a lot of different things, anon. From your description it could be: 1. you’re kin and sometimes its more…

old tumblr postsJune 27, 2016

Seeing all these people saying they’re afraid to be factkin makes me want to ask: is it okay to be uncomfortable about them? I wouldn’t go around harassing them, making blatant posts on why they should or shouldn’t exist, and besides being uncomfortable with them, I’m a bit indifferent to the entire thing. Is that okay?

Its okay to be uncomfortable with factkin, as long as you’re not harassing or badmouthing them. Remember too that some people are uncomfortable with fictionkin…

old tumblr postsJune 27, 2016

I’m factkin but very very very very secretly (this is my first time admitting it at all anywhere to anyone) and i can completely understand why people uncomfortable with us, and those people being assholes isn’t helping at all. I don’t know of any places i could talk about my experiences without being judged, but tbh there’s a reason for that. Lots of reasons, which you already covered. I wish other factkin understood that too

Thank you for writing, anon. 🙂 I feel for you, I really do. Having to deal with being factkin must suck way more than being…

old tumblr postsJune 27, 2016

I’m going to be so livid if that network blog deletes because of some bad seeds in the Personakin and Factkin community. They seem really nice and made something I haven’t seen before to help the community it really boils my blood that Factkin and Personakin with their already bad reputation would think harassing someone is the proper response to someone being uncomfortable with them.

I agree with you anon, it’ll be a shame if they delete, especially because a) a nework catalog is actually pretty useful b) its probably…