old tumblr postsJanuary 11, 2016

natural multiplicity terms

Lately several DID sufferers have expressed the view that natural multiples using the term ’system’ to describe themselves is in some way appropriative or dismissive…

old tumblr postsJanuary 6, 2016

Can confirm, I am a totally non-trauma based singlet soulbonder so is not necessarily a multiple term. More like a spirit worker/astral worker kind of thing.

old tumblr postsJanuary 6, 2016

Is soulbound term only for multiples? Because I research it all I could find and it helped define my relationships with characters but I’m not multiple as far as I know, I have really strong facets based on trauma and a strong relationship with characters that I even use in my pop culture paganism practices.

No, soulbonders can be singlets too. There are both multiple and singlet ways to interact with soulbonds.

old tumblr postsNovember 16, 2015

I wanted to thank you, I’ve been feeling like less of a system because these people exist in my head to me but they almost never front and I always make them. Soulbond feels so much more accurate thank you

I’m so glad that I could help! I think Soulbonding is an important concept that sometimes gets lost to the wayside of other experiences.

old tumblr postsNovember 16, 2015

Sorry to bother you, but you’re about the best person I have found to ask about soulbonding in general. I’m 98% sure I have soulbonded, and progress in communication is going slowly but pretty okay. But I’m still very worried I’m just making this all up in my head to cope with a harsh reality of never being able to ever physically BE with said soulbond in the Real World. And this keeps bringing up two questions that I haven’t really been able to find a solid answer on. (1/2 – IIR)

(2/2 – IIR) The first question being, how can I tell if it’s really real or I’m just making this up? The sort of answer…

old tumblr postsNovember 3, 2015

Hi, I sent an anon ask a few days ago about a soul bond, but I think tumblr ate it. I used to think I was kin with a character, until I accidentally made contact with him. I could see him, and perceive what he was thinking. He turned around and looked right where I “was”. Since then, I was thinking maybe this is the beginning of a soul bond? I can sense his emotions sometimes, and I’ve talked to him sparingly a couple times. I asked him if I was making it up, and he told me that since the (1/2)

(2/2) bond was tenuous that my mind was filling in gaps of what he was saying, but at least part of what I was hearing…

old tumblr postsOctober 29, 2015

There is nothing wrong with roleplay. Roleplay is a medium through which many people create or call fictives, find out that they are multiple, or…

old tumblr postsOctober 26, 2015

Soulbonds are a type of fictive. They existed or continue to exist in a world/universe/realm other than our earth, and have come through magical means…

old tumblr postsOctober 20, 2015

Do you know of any sites or blogs dedicated to soulbonding? I know it’s not a super big thing anymore but I’d like to learn more about it, even if the sites aren’t active anymore~

here are a couple of older resources: http://soulbonding.livejournal.com/ http://soulbonding.tripod.com/soulbonding_intro.htm and also this fairly active forum: http://www.soulbonding.org/

old tumblr postsOctober 13, 2015

Is it possible to have a soulbond that functions as a tulpa-like being? Usually I hear about soulbonds existing only as headmates, but I interact with mine in the same way that people interact with thoughtforms and tulpas; they’re external (entirely outside of my mind), they cannot ‘front’ or take over for me, and I can feel their presence as a semi-physical sensation.

While most of the soulbonders I’ve known have experienced their bonds functionally as headmates, I have also read posts of some people experiencing them as…