old tumblr postsFebruary 13, 2016

Hey! I really like your blog and I’ve been following for a while. I was wondering if you had any advice on soulbonding? I feel as though I’m ‘soulbonding’ with a few characters..but I’m doing it without trying? Do you think its possible to soulbond and not even know it? I feel as though Latios (the Pokemon) is with me. Is there a way to know if you truly are soulbonding these characters? Thank you and again, love your blog <3

It is absolutely possible to soulbond without knowing it, and in fact its very normal and natural for many people it occurs to. For me,…

old tumblr postsFebruary 13, 2016

Hey! I really like your blog and I’ve been following for a while. I was wondering if you had any advice on soulbonding? I feel as though I’m ‘soulbonding’ with a few characters..but I’m doing it without trying? Do you think its possible to soulbond and not even know it? I feel as though Latios (the Pokemon) is with me. Is there a way to know if you truly are soulbonding these characters? Thank you and again, love your blog

It is absolutely possible to soulbond without knowing it, and in fact its very normal and natural for many people it occurs to. For me,…

old tumblr postsFebruary 13, 2016

Is it possible for a soulbond to happen instantly?

Yes, it absolutely is. I’ve had characters just sort of leap into my mind immediately upon encountering them.

old tumblr postsFebruary 13, 2016

Hey, I am host to a walk-in fictive and soulbond, and I have wondered lately how often the host should talk with their bonds? They tend to come and go whenever they want, but I started wondering if I’m supposed to talk to them regularly? I love them both but I tend to like being alone, and I don’t want to ignore them or anything.

There’s absolutely no ‘rule’ for this, its entirely up to what you and your bonds feel comfortable with. As long as you and they are…

old tumblr postsFebruary 8, 2016

is there anyway you can get rid of a soulbond at some point?

Mostly, soulbonds come and go basically as they please, to an extent. if you’re really not getting along with a soulbond though, the best idea…

old tumblr postsFebruary 7, 2016

When forming a soul bond, do you think it would be a good idea to “ask” the yet-unformed bond questions and make up an answer that they might reply with until they actually come along? Sorry if that was a little hard to understand.

I definitely think its a good idea to to that! In fact its part of my guide on soulbonding. http://fictionkin.net/soulbonding/soulbonding-for-beginners/

old tumblr postsJanuary 25, 2016

Your post on the fictionkin fictive difference made me wonder – what about fictives who are also fictionkin? As in, they remember past lives in the same way any fictionkin does, even though they have a main/current form similar to a fictionkin’s current life. But maybe that’s a soulbond thing? Since I always heard that fictives were specifically related to alters who are fictional, and soulbonds can come and go as they wish and aren’t necessarily a part of the host.

I won’t take a stance on whether alters can be fictionkin, as alters are specifically DID related and not something I am qualified to discuss.…

old tumblr postsJanuary 19, 2016

Hi, I just wanted to say thank you. I happened across your description of soulbonding and it helped me realize that I (probably on accident) bonded with an original novel character of mine–the points you gave matched up exactly with what happened when he revealed himself. I feel a lot more at ease knowing there’s a word for why he’s there. Thank you so much. <3

I’m so glad that my posts could help! Good luck to you and your bond ^^

old tumblr postsJanuary 19, 2016

Hi, I just wanted to say thank you. I happened across your description of soulbonding and it helped me realize that I (probably on accident) bonded with an original novel character of mine–the points you gave matched up exactly with what happened when he revealed himself. I feel a lot more at ease knowing there’s a word for why he’s there. Thank you so much.

I’m so glad that my posts could help! Good luck to you and your bond ^^

old tumblr postsJanuary 12, 2016

Im p sure ive soulbonded w someone, and later on came across tulpa stuff. Im rlly embarrassed to say soulbond around other ppl tho, would it be ok to call a bond an “accedental tulpa”? Or something else maybe? Srry if this sounds dumb.

Most tulpamancers Ive known are cool with the term soulbond. However, if you feel self conscious, you can use whatever term you like!