tbh when ur tryin to find other kin folk you need to leave your past relationships – especially if those relationships were romantic – out of it
because if you go to someone who you were in a relationship with in a past life and expect that same type of relationship with someone who is a stranger to you in this life just by proxy of it being a past life
like it’s okay if you did have that relation with them in a past life
and that that helps establish a bridge between yourself and another in
this life but you need to keep the context of that relationship to
yourself.if something comes of it in this life, awesome. but dont just
approach people and expect that to remain exactly true in this lifetime.like if someone came to you confessing romantic feelings for you, you’d most likely be a bit disturbed by it so i mean – dont do it to other people.
kin is not roleplaying and its definitely not a dating service. =/
and honestly you should be very cautious of anyone, especially an adult, who insists that they had a relationship with you of any kind that isnt strictly platonic or familial just by that past life proxy and expects this kind of relationship of you now
you need to be wary because that’s a red flag and could be someone potentially abusive trying to weasel their way into your life
basically just be careful and also dont be weird.
