Different anon. The realmultipleadvice, by their own stance, doesn’t respect kin though. They deny it exists, which is fine there will be a difference in beliefs, but then they also say that it’s incredibly unhealthy to be kin even as a coping method. Which is insulting to the belief system and a major issue kin would have with the people running that blog.

That’s fair, and I can see where you are coming from with that stance. I’ll admit I find their position somewhat ironic, given that they themselves have been harassed by people who don’t believe that endogienic multiples are ‘real’ and believe that it’s ‘unhealthy’. Still, I respect their right to have that belief, and I don’t have to like their all positions to find their information useful.

Personally, I would say its analogous to them being a vegetarian who believes that eating meat is inherently unhealthy. I, a meat eater, can still get valuable vegetarian recipes from them, even if they think the meals that I cook are unhealthy, and don’t approve of me serving their vegetarian side dishes with meat.

That said, if someone can point me to an active, informed, well spoken, levelheaded and inclusive blog answering questions about multiplicity that DOES believe in kin and soulbonding, I would be very grateful and recommend that blog instead.