hey so i think in my canon i lost my right arm, and now i feel invalid and ableist because i’m able bodied in this life. help?

Hey anon, I lost my arm (and my eye) in canon too (and in my memories). What about it is making you feel invalid? Just because you lost your arm in your canon, doesn’t mean that you would be born without one here. Hell, at any time in the future you could lose your arm in an accident. (I am absolutely not wishing this on you!!) There is absolutely no reason for your body now to resemble the body of your kintype. Would you expect wolfkin to have paws?