Hello! I really hope this is okay to ask this here… I have no one else to go to and I’ve been having a really hard time with trying to deny and suppress these kin feels I have been getting, Because from what I have heard a lot of people say it is very wrong, and impossible to be kin with a character who is physically disabled if you irl are able bodied. Could I get some of your thoughts on this? At least just go easy on me if you feel the same as others I have seen ;;; thank you!

I am so sorry that you are being harassed this way.

It is absolutely possible for you, or anyone else, disabled or able bodied, to be kin with someone who is disabled.

Being kin is a spiritual (or in some cases physiological) belief that you share the soul (or mind) with a certain character.

Being kin has nothing to do with race, age, culture, disability, gender, or sexual preference. You are not being offensive, bigoted or ‘ableist’ in any way.

Frankly I could go (and have gone) on about this for ages and ages. Check out my tag ‘racism’ for more of my thoughts on the subject.