Is it okay to be fickin but not have any memories? Because I’m Fickin with the character France from Hetalia and I don’t really have any memories and it makes me feel invalid.

Many kin don’t have concrete memories of their other lives. Memories can be distant, unreliable, and often painful and sad. They can be triggered by situations close in this life to ones in your other life, or by watching/reading/etc your ‘source’, by meditation and searching for them, or by other means.

Kin who don’t have concrete memories experience being kin as bone-deep feelings and impulses. For instance they may not remember how something went in their other life, but they will sort know what ‘feels right’ to them, about a certain subject or person.

That said, if one has a 15+ character  list of people that you believe are your kinselves, and no memories for any of them, perhaps it is time for some meditation and self-discovery.