old tumblr postsApril 6, 2015

I’m pretty sure I’m fictionkin, but I tend to cycle through characters. Most of the time, everyone is background noise, living in my wacky cross-canon mind hotel, with one very dominant character who I start to emulate (usually without meaning to). I get teasing comments about how the character and I are clones. And then a year later, it’s a different character. It’s confusing! It’s ruined friendships because I “change” personality so often. Any advice?

Look into soulbonding, median plurality, and healthy multiplicity. There are people out there who have had the same experiences you have, and learn how to…

old tumblr postsApril 6, 2015

I never believed in this Kin stuff. When I found out about fictionkin and headmates, it felt like “There’s a WORD for that?” I still don’t want to believe it, but I have to admit that it’s a relief to find this blog. I’ve had experiences that just can’t be explained away. So thank you.

I’m glad to be here, as a resource for people who need one.

old tumblr postsMarch 29, 2015

Someone close to me suggested I might possibly be fictionkin of someone very powerful and well-loved from a really famous fandom, and I can see why they said that but I also hate the idea. I don’t feel good enough, I’m nowhere near as great as he is. I feel like I don’t deserve it. Is there anything I can do to accept the idea long enough to explore it fully?

I’ve struggled with similar feelings. Honestly, I think the fact that you feel like you’re not ‘worthy’ is a good indication that it may be a…

old tumblr postsMarch 29, 2015

Hello! I’m sorry for disturbing your askbox, but I have a question! I think I’m kin with this certain character, but I don’t really know if I am. I’ve actually gone through the EXACT same experiences they’ve dealt with and I noticed that we both have the same hobbies and dislikings. But maybe it’s just me overthinking. Am I kin with this character or do I just look up to them?

Only you can really answer that question for yourself. Having the same experiences in this life as a character does in a fiction can make…

old tumblr postsMarch 29, 2015

Is it possible to be like 100 percent in love with a character, like id marry them and have a family and like stuff, but also be like oh frick im totally them like also 100 percent? Its really weird to think about, and im by no means a narcisist.

Sometimes the lines between attraction and self image blur. Maybe you’re attracted to them because you feel that you’re like them? Maybe you feel that…

old tumblr postsMarch 28, 2015

I’m fictionkin of ‘Robin’ (although that isn’t my real name..) from the series ‘Fire Emblem’. I’m desperate to communicate with people from my past life (especially my children and husband) who are also fictionkin of ‘characters’ from Fire Emblem. I’ll be frequently coming back to this blog to see if anyone responds to this. Thanks!

old tumblr postsMarch 26, 2015

I am dating someone who is fictonkin and I am not, is there anything I should except? as they have shifts?

Some fictionkin experience ‘shifts’ and some do not. Above all my advice is to listen to what your date tells you about themself. Be open and…

old tumblr postsMarch 26, 2015

hi! i was wondering what the differenc between fictionkin and fictive is? also, what is a headmate?

Headmate: Any conscious and separate entity sharing the body of another conscious and separate entity. The root word here is ‘roommate’. Basically using a room as…

old tumblr postsMarch 26, 2015

Yo uh, I’ve been looking for active fickin communities so that I could read other people’s experiences? I’m trying to figure out if I am fickin or something else and I feel like reading other experiences would help me. But when i google it all I see is pages upon pages of people just bashing it that it makes it so hard to find any info. If you want me to ask off-anon for links to active community i could do that, and I’d understand why.

I do know of one active community for fictionkin, however its very private. I’d urge anyone looking for a community like this to message me…

old tumblr postsMarch 26, 2015

Hey can I just say I get really good vibes from you? You just seem so kind and open-minded all the time. Thanks for being here.

You’re sweet. 🙂 I’m glad you’re here too.