old tumblr postsJune 28, 2016

in relation to being told to repress kintypes—I once saw a multiplicity blog tell someone to try and suppress one of their headmates bc they weren’t the same race as the host..which is honestly just terrible advice.

Yeah, that’s fucking *terrible* advice, especially to a multiple. As if they had control over their alters???

old tumblr postsJune 10, 2016

heck heck hheck s h i f t i n g nnot fronting ohmgg I almost went and asked if you could link to some of those “voluntary fronting guides” before I caught my shit dyslexic self. Though… if you DO know of guides for voluntary fronting…… or is that something this front stuck anon can only dream about

Sorry anon, maybe a blog more focused on multiplicity can help you?

old tumblr postsMay 31, 2016

hey i have OSDD-1 and i think you might have just misinterpreted things said by blogs like this-is-not-dissociative? the first alters always form in childhood, but you can absolutely form new alters later in life if new trauma occurs. i’ve never seen a DID/OSDD blog say otherwise, it’s pretty widely accepted. also, some systems are ok with the term “fictives” rather than “fictional introjects” – it just depends on the person. just a heads up

Systems may be ‘fine’ with the term ‘fictive’ but its not a DID/OSDD term. The medical term is ‘fictional introjects’. I clarify this because I have had DID/OSDD…

old tumblr postsMay 22, 2016

i feel stupid for asking this but what does it mean to be in a system in the kin community? ive seen the term around but nothing has explained it?

Hey anon, don’t feel stupid. Its always confusing to see terminology that we don’t know. First of all, the term ‘system’ is not a kin term.…

old tumblr postsApril 19, 2016

Different anon. The realmultipleadvice, by their own stance, doesn’t respect kin though. They deny it exists, which is fine there will be a difference in beliefs, but then they also say that it’s incredibly unhealthy to be kin even as a coping method. Which is insulting to the belief system and a major issue kin would have with the people running that blog.

That’s fair, and I can see where you are coming from with that stance. I’ll admit I find their position somewhat ironic, given that they…

old tumblr postsApril 19, 2016

Hey, you might not want to recommend realmultipleadvice to people. That blog is anti otherkin/fictionkin and they don’t think soulbonds are real.

I am aware of @realmultipleadvice ‘s stance on those things, and I feel comfortable recommending them anyway, specifically because: a) if a question is about kin…