old tumblr postsFebruary 15, 2016

I think I might be fictionkin of a character, and I feel drawn to the story this character comes from, but at the same time it makes me feel stressed out for no apparent reason. Is this a common fictionkin thing / how common is this for fictionkin?

Its pretty common to feel anxious/stressed about the story you come from, especially if that life had a lot of negative things happen to you.…

old tumblr postsFebruary 14, 2016

How do you feel phantom limbs from something…. that is a human? Like Digimon Kaiser is a human but you say you must feel phantom limbs so??

I don’t experience supernumerary phantom limbs from my kaiser life. I do however experience facial and body dysphoria, where I feel like my body just…

old tumblr postsFebruary 13, 2016

how do you deal with being kin with a bad person, like, ‘blowing up entire planets full of people’ type of bad, i feel really distraught about this and im scared it might make me a bad person even though I didn’t do those things in this life

Things i have done in my kin lives: brutally enslaved a race of adorable sentient creatures created a frankensteinian monstrosity killed and maimed fellow teenagers…

old tumblr postsFebruary 13, 2016

Also I wanted to ask what your thoughts and opinions on psychological fictionkin are? What do you think are the similarities between metaphysical and psych kin? Do you think mental illness could affect this somehow? Sorry for sending two asks, but they are two different questions. UnU

Psychological kin are as legitimate as spiritual kin. They experience all the same phenomena as spiritual kin (memories, dysphoria, supernumerary phantom limbs, etc) but they…

old tumblr postsFebruary 13, 2016

This is probably gonna sound dumb, but is it a kin thing to get like really intense secondhand embarrassment from a character? I have a lot of strong feelings involving one character and I’m trying to analyze how I feel critically but have a hard time because of mental illness don’t know what normal thinking is like at all.

Secondhand embarrassment on behalf of your kinself is something that a lot of kin experience. My fiancee and I personally experience a lot of it.…

old tumblr postsFebruary 13, 2016

Is it possible for a soulbond to happen instantly?

Yes, it absolutely is. I’ve had characters just sort of leap into my mind immediately upon encountering them.

old tumblr postsFebruary 13, 2016

Hey, I am host to a walk-in fictive and soulbond, and I have wondered lately how often the host should talk with their bonds? They tend to come and go whenever they want, but I started wondering if I’m supposed to talk to them regularly? I love them both but I tend to like being alone, and I don’t want to ignore them or anything.

There’s absolutely no ‘rule’ for this, its entirely up to what you and your bonds feel comfortable with. As long as you and they are…

old tumblr postsFebruary 13, 2016

im not the original anon, but it literally says right in anti-anti-wincest’s description “Supportive of consensual adult incest.” they regularly hurl ableist slurs at people, told someone theyre not a pedophile for liking shota/loli (which is literal pedophilia), and otherwise most of the content on their blog is defending pedophilia and incest. i dont see how sources are needed when it takes about a minute of scrolling to see it clearly.

Its never okay to use ableist slurs on anyone. However not everyone will agree that shota/loli is equal to supporting pedophilia.

old tumblr postsFebruary 12, 2016

i had a kin awakening recently (10 minutes ago, still kinda sick from it) aand I legitimately can’t tell which character im kin with. i feel more aligned with one character but the emotions im feeling are in line with a diff character hes close to?

What exactly was your awakening like? What feelings and emotions are you getting? Is it just the familiarness of the world? The situation? its possible…

old tumblr postsFebruary 11, 2016

To that anon, as a fickin, I’ve had a full psych assessment for my job and am completely neurotypical, so. I do have a bad back so you could be right about the medical bit for me.

Sorry about your bad back, anon! You have my well wishes! I love how anti-kin just can’t bear the fact that a lot of us…