How can I tell if a kintype is wrong? Like, I have some pretty defining kin experiences, and they are super important to me, but lately I’m not sure if they are as real as i thought, and id rather know the truth than go on believing something blindly

That’s rough, anon. Firstly, remember, sometimes it’s just a case of over questioning things, and you need to step back and let yourself breath.

However, if you really think a kintype may be false, what you want to do is try to examine the OTHER explanations and reasons for how you feel about that kintype. If you weren’t kin, why would you feel like them? If you have what seem like memories, what explains them? Try to track it all back. Look for concrete reasons that go deeper than ‘because I like the character’. Liking them doesn’t mean you can’t be them.