old tumblr postsAugust 10, 2015

do you think some people take fictionkins to far like there are people who say “don’t follow me if you kin with the same character as me” its kind of?????? idk

I’m going to get a lot of shit for this. On Do Not Follow lists in general: I think ‘do not follow if’ lists of any…

old tumblr postsAugust 10, 2015

Okay, this is going to sound like a troll question, but… do you think it’s possible for a kin to, say, soulbond with themselves from another reality? Like, if you’re Ken, could you soulbond with Ken from a slightly different timeline? Have you ever heard of this happening?

I have never personally heard of this happening, however, there is no reason it could not. It sounds like a very weird experience! Anyone who…

old tumblr postsAugust 10, 2015

i have a question for the mod, does anyone irl know you’re fictionkin?

I often advocate for people NOT to tell people IRL in their lives that they’re fictionkin. At least, not to tell people who are not…

old tumblr postsAugust 10, 2015

I think I’m fictionhearted but it’s with a character from something rare. I mean I feel a lot better understanding what I feel, but I almost kind of wish the canon had more attention or that I could find more people who are kin/hearted with it.

This is a feeling a lot of kin/hearted people share. Sadly some sources are simply quite rare, while others are overflowing. I have never met…

old tumblr postsAugust 10, 2015

Hey, so..I’ve never understood kin at all until recently. I started playing a game and I feel very intensely for a character. Not that they are even my favourite which is likely due to my own feelings towards myself. But when I try to read fics of her, I feel like someone is writing about me and feel uncomfortable. Everything about them feels like me, like we’re one or connected. But I’m not a spiritual person, and I’m not sure I believe in souls. Do you think I could still count as fictionkin?

People believe in fictionkin in many different ways. Some people who don’t believe in spirits or souls believe fictionkin from a purely psychological perspective. I…

old tumblr postsAugust 10, 2015

Is it okay to be fickin but not have any memories? Because I’m Fickin with the character France from Hetalia and I don’t really have any memories and it makes me feel invalid.

Many kin don’t have concrete memories of their other lives. Memories can be distant, unreliable, and often painful and sad. They can be triggered by…

old tumblr postsAugust 2, 2015

Hey, uhm…I’m just kinda trying to figure out what, exactly, I’m experiencing. I have had a particular connection with a certain character since I was about 12 years old. I don’t feel any spiritual or religious ties, or th I am her or her reincarnation. I am me, in control of my body, and I know that she isn’t a real, tangible person. She is in control of herself and largely/entirely independent of me, but it’s like she’s a guest in my head. I didn’t create her like a tulpa. She’s like a casual

–observer. I’m not sure how to catalogue this, and was just wondering what your take on it is. She’s a ‘villain’ who is largely hated…

old tumblr postsJuly 27, 2015

Do you think it’s possible that some soulbonds can only talk to you in your dreams? A character visits me frequently while I’m asleep and our interactions are deeply personal (not sexual… yet) & I feel such a connection with them but I can’t seem to get them to talk to me while I’m awake. Do you think it could eventually happen or, if it doesn’t, is it wrong to label this a soulbond? And by frequently I mean at least once per night, every night… Thank you if you answer, fantastic blog! :)

Soulbonds express themselves in a variety of ways. I’ve had, and heard of people having bonds that never speak, but only make themselves known through…

old tumblr postsJuly 25, 2015

Do you think it’s a bad idea to have ended up soulbonding with a character who you are deeply in love with and also sexually attracted to? It’s not unpleasant, it’s just that I feel almost like I’m overstepping some kind of line. Should I run with it, or attempt to back out?

I personally don’t think this is bad, though other people will have other opinions from me. Intense feelings are often what create a bond, and…

old tumblr postsJuly 25, 2015

Do you think soulbonds are “real” if they don’t accurately reflect all traits of their personality or memories etc from their canon? (Note: “real” isn’t the word I want to use (it’s kinda rude) but I can’t come up with a better word for this question. I’m not trying to be rude, slap me if I am.)

I don’t think this is a rude question. 🙂 The answer is yes. I consider all soulbonds ‘real’ for lack of a better word, regardless of…