old tumblr postsApril 20, 2016

i am so damn confused. i’ve spent two years now thinking that i might be fictionkin, but i can’t come to definite answer. i’ve tended to push away any feelings (or memories???) of my kin that i have, because i don’t know what the hell to do with them. but they always come back, with bigger force. i have no idea if i AM fictionkin, or fictionhearted, or some other term that I don’t even know yet because there are so many to learn. i don’t even know why i sent this ask. im just so confused.

If you have to push away these feelings and they keep coming back, that’s a good indication that you may be kin, or have a…

old tumblr postsApril 20, 2016

So I’m a little confused. I have characters and animals/creatures who are not Soulbonds or Kin but who do mean a great deal to me. However their backgrounds/lives have little to no similarity to my own. Does this still make me Fiction-/Otherhearted and they my Synpaths, or is this just Feels and [whatever the acceptable term is for a white person’s spiritual animal guide, if there is one]?

You don’t have to have the same traits as someone/something to be other/fictionhearted with them. I’m not sure whether they’d count as synpaths or not,…

old tumblr postsApril 19, 2016

Different anon. The realmultipleadvice, by their own stance, doesn’t respect kin though. They deny it exists, which is fine there will be a difference in beliefs, but then they also say that it’s incredibly unhealthy to be kin even as a coping method. Which is insulting to the belief system and a major issue kin would have with the people running that blog.

That’s fair, and I can see where you are coming from with that stance. I’ll admit I find their position somewhat ironic, given that they…

old tumblr postsApril 19, 2016

we’ll support this half of your existence, but not that half. You can’t say you welcome someone and then say you don’t believe they exist. Fuck realmultipleadvice. I also really don’t need to see any of this shit in tags or on blogs i follow when I already have unreality problems.

If that’s the way you feel anon, then that’s the way you feel. No one is going to force you to interact with a tumblr…

old tumblr postsApril 19, 2016

Hey, you might not want to recommend realmultipleadvice to people. That blog is anti otherkin/fictionkin and they don’t think soulbonds are real.

I am aware of @realmultipleadvice ‘s stance on those things, and I feel comfortable recommending them anyway, specifically because: a) if a question is about kin…

old tumblr postsApril 18, 2016

Out of curiosity, are you okay with regular not-nounself neopronouns? You know, the ones that actually follow the rules of English? I was just curious because I read your about and it said you don’t like “nounself neopronouns,” and I got confused. In any case, your blog is fantastic and I think you’re awesome and intelligent. Thanks! -a curious dragon

The pronouns I’m comfortable using for people for now, are he, she, and singular ‘they’. I think its important for our language to have a pronoun…

old tumblr postsApril 18, 2016

I think I’m kin of a character, but the problem is that it’s a background character that gets about 3 lines of dialogue and barely has any canon personality and has NO backstory. How can I tell if this is the right person?

Ouch, anon, I can sympathize. Unfortunately, I don’t have any good advice for you. However, my fiancee who recently went through this herself, may. @nagathewhiteserpent…

old tumblr postsApril 18, 2016

how do i take care of littles in my system? i already cant take care of myself and i dont want them to feel bad at all!!

This isn’t really a question I can answer. Its not a kin question, and even as a soulbonder, I don’t have anyone in my headspace…

old tumblr postsApril 18, 2016

is it a common thing to get memories and stuff from fanworks? like, fanfiction and things like that. i read a fic for one of my fickintypes recently and it felt like i was hit with a serious case of deja vu, like i was reading a description of something that happened to me, but this only happened once i’d gotten to a certain part of the fic

Fanworks can definitely trigger memories and feelings, especially if they capture something that was meaningful to you. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re kin specifically…

old tumblr postsApril 18, 2016

1/2 I very conflicted. I’ve been doubting this entire identity lately. When I battle my doubts, am I just denying the truth? Do I fabricate my kinfeels and memories to fit into this identity? Am I just using to cope, to fill the empty void in my identity depression left there? Am I just doing this to belong, because I don’t belong anywhere else? Then there’s a whole other series of “what-ifs.” I want to say I’m being too hard on myself, that this is truly where my heart lies and I have figured

2/3 myself out.But I also want to say I’m deluded and crazy, that this is just a fun game my brain put together for me,…